BENITA came into her house and had a strange feeling. Like someone strange is around.

She started singing……
There is power mighty in the blood
There is power mighty in the blood
There is power mighty in the blood of Jesus Christ.
There is power mighty in the blood.

She walked around the whole house then went upstairs to her room still singing. No one was at home except the gate keeper and their dog who was barking furiously.

She opened the door of her room, behold minister zina seated on the cushion in her room.

Benita was furious.

– how dare you? What gut!!! Have you no fear? What are you doing in my room? Don’t you know? That light and darkness are two parallel lines?

– Benita, I mean no harm. Again, you delivered one of our captives.

– point of correction demon, I did not deliver her. My Lord Jesus Christ did. That subtility won’t work with me. You won’t inject pride in my spirit.

– (Zina stood up) why are you rigid? Loosen up. Listen to me, you need our help. Don’t you want to be famous? You have powers, people need you, you have the gift to see, the world will crawl to your door step for solution.

Dear Benita, we will make you famous, and wealthy. Presidents, governors, kings, dignitaries will flock around you. You will still speak in the name of the Lord, you will still tell people to turn from their sins. Join us. The marine is so much interested in your family. Join us.

– shut up demon

– don’t call me demon, I am a queen

– demon, that’s what you are. And all power has been bestowed upon me by my Lord Jesus Christ. He has given me the keys of the kingdom (speaking in tongues) that what so ever I bind here on earth, is bound in heaven and what so ever I loose here on earth is loosed in heaven.

Zina, I loose in this room the flood of fire from above.

– stop it zina shouted

-Fire! Fire!! Fire!!!!

-arrrrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhh, Benita, I will deal with you for this. You will suffer for this, and I will make sure it starts from here, your family. I am Queen zina, the golden fish of the 100th marine region, I WILL SWALLOW YOU.

– Big lie, No weapon, formed against me shall prosper and every tongue that riseth against me shall be condemned. Now demon, in the name of JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH, BE GONE.

Just then her mother opened the door. Benita was sweating. The dog stopped barking

-Benny, is there a problem?

– hmm, mum, the queen of the marine coast, the one you saw in that revelation was here.

– BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST, WHAT!!!!! In this house?

– I brought this upon us. I carnally went to that church programme. Lord I ask for mercy (crying)

– no no no dear, don’t say that. We were all spiritually careless. God has shown mercy by giving you victory.

As they spoke, danladi the gate keeper rushed in

-MADAM!! MADAM,!!! ACCIDENT !!!ACCIDENT!!!
SMALL OGA ACCIDENT.

-What, where? Jesus!!!

Benita and her mum rushed out. Behold Richard Benita’s only brother and Rev. Johnson’s only son in the pool of his own blood. Was hit by a vehicle as he tried crossing to get into the house.

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Reverend Ferdinand Johnson and his household did not sleep all night because of his wife’ s dream. They kept vigil all night.

Pastor Mrs grace Johnson dreamt that the ocean and every thing in it came up against their daughter Benita. She was fighting so hard and was getting weak. Suddenly a GOLDEN FISH WITH VERY LONG HAIR came up and swallowed her.

Benita got home at about 6:35 am. Her mum rushed to her.

– oh thank you Jesus. Baby you are welcome.

– thank God you are safe Benny her father replied.

– why is everyone looking worried?

– hmm, sis, her brother answered mum had a terrible dream.

-really? What was the dream please?

Richard narrated the dream to Benita.

-Hmmmm Benita sighed. Mum, it wasn’t just an ordinary dream, it is a pure revelation.

She narrated her ordeal to her family. They started prayers immediately. As they prayed, power came down. Heaven’s glory engulfed the whole place where they were.

God assured them of his presence and protection.

Benita was still worried about her mum’s dream. THE FISH SWALLOWED HER.

REV FERDINAND spoke on the need to be careful with the kind of programmes they attend. They must not welcome the idea of just anybody with the inscription MAN OR WOMAN OF GOD, laying hands on them. They must hence forth prayerfully study any programme that comes our way.

Benita wondered why shola has not been to church since the day they returned from that programme. She hasn’t visited either. She decided to visit.

AT SHOLA’S RESIDENCE

Benita walked into shola’s sitting room which was already open. Lo and behold, SANDRA was in there. At sighting bENITA, Sandra stood up.

– Shola, I should be on my way now. Will see you some other time.

– why, you’re leaving already?

– yea. I have some run around to do. See you in school tomorrow.

she left hurriedly.

– Benny, so at last you decided to come check on me? Not fair o. Not been feeling well.

– so sorry dear. ( feeling her body with the back of her palm) how are you feeling now?

– I’m better thanks.

– you’re healed in Jesus name. What was Sandra doing here?

– she came to check on me and to remind me of the form I’m to fill and submit.

– what form?

(shola brought out the form and gave to Benita)

– I’m to fill all these areas and seal it with my blood here. ( pointing to the column)

– JESUS, shouted Benita. Seal what with your blood? Are you OK?

– minister ZINA said as Jesus sealed his covenant with us with his blood, that is how we must seal it on earth because we are meant to be like him.

– JESUS CHRIST, Benita screamed. Shola, you are about entering a covenant with queen of the MARINE.

– Benny, that’s not true. Minister ZINA is a woman of God. This form is for me to be a member in her society she called HOUSE OF DEBORAH. Sandra is a member. Since she joined, she has been independent. She pays her fees on her own. No longer waiting for her father and wicked step mother. I want to be independent too.

– Shola, I won’t let you do this. I won’t allow them take you. (Starts speaking in tongues) ooooooh holy ghost. My bible tells me, that the lawful captive shall be delivered. For Lord will contend with those who contend with us and he will save our children. (Speaking in tongues) you marine spirit, deposited in this body in form of a snake.

Shola started shouting.

Loose your grip. Out of this body. Now, Now, holy ghost, please descend and take over.

Shola was still shouting. She started coughing and vomiting.

Benita’s eyes were opened. She saw MINISTER ZINA enchanting to kill shola.

– you were supposed to keep it a secret you swine. Minister ZINA said still enchanting.

-ZINA, let her go NOW.it is an order.

– stay away from this Benita, I am not here for you. She broke the edge and according to the bible, the serpent will bite.

– Benny, I’m dying cried shola.

– no, you will not die. For the Lord is your light and your salvation, whom shall you fear. when the enemy even our foes comes to eat up our flesh, they stumbled and fell.

ZINA, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, fall. Who is that mountain before zerubabel. Who can stand against the Lord and his anointed. Be gone in Jesus name.

ZINA left shola.
Shola stopped shouting. She has been delivered.

Benita burned the form.

To God be the glory.

Benita got home. Lo and behold, Minister zina was in her room.

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MINISTER ZINA SURFACED. She dragged Sandra out.

-what are you doing owning up to her accusations? You have just ruined my plans by identifying with her claims. Sandra you should be wise. What is wrong with you? Just one confrontation and you succumbed like this.

By the way, did I ask you to defend for me? This is who I have been looking for. That lady you see their is WANTED by the marine world especially the congregation of the sixth ocean. Should anything happen, you will pay dearly.

–I’m sorry mother. I pledge and volunteer myself in the mission.

-too bad Sandra, you are no match for her. She is higher than your level. I am her only match for now.

– what? Is she that powerful? I am on the 24th marine power region and you say she is higher than me?

– hmmm, Sandra, do you think we are up against a chicken? Go to the control room now and check her profile. Some who brought down queen haziba?

– what? She did that to queen haziba?

– yes, and that is why we do not intend destroying her, she is WANTED, she must join us. She was the main reason we had this programme. Listen to me Sandra, do not interfere. Stay clear off her. She is your superior.

—yes mother. I hail the queen mother.

– now be gone.

Sandra left.

Benita was still waiting for shola to come out. She was spiritually alert all through praying in her spirit. Minister ZINA walked up to her.

-Anointed one of the most high, what troubles you?

Sandra stood up

– how dare you drag the name of the Almighty God into your mess Queen ZINA, Queen of the 100th marine region? What guts!!!! Be rest assured that the Lord will expose you. And I, BENITA JOHNSON, Servant of the most high God will not rest until you are brought down.

– I mean no harm. I want to help you. I am MINISTER ZINA this is my Church. I am a minister like your parents.

– oh please, you should know more by now. I know who you are. When your superior came to strike my mum with madness, by the the power of God she was crushed. Quit the deceit, I know you.

– fine. Yes I am who I am. You need my help.

– I do not need your help. Psalm 1 21 from. verse 2, my help cometh from the Lord who made heaven and the earth. He will not suffer my foot to be moved, he who keep Israel will not slumber, Behold,he who keeps Israel will not slumber nor sleep. The Lord is my keep , the Lord is my shield.

Minister ZINA could not stand it anymore. She was shivering.

– you remain wanted by us. I will frustrate you till you join us. I will turn all that brings you joy to bitterness. I will bring you multiple sorrow till you bend bend and join us.

– Shadrach Meshach and Abednego defeated the fire. Daniel defeated the lion’s den. My Lord Jesus Christ defeated the grave. Queen ZINA, I will defeat you.

She left. Almost immediately shola came out.

– Benny, who are you talking to?

– what kind of question is that? Can’t you see minister ZINA here?

– there’s nobody here. Just you and besides I have been with minister ZINA inside her office.

– what? Oh I see. Please let’s leave this place. I will explain later and what have you been doing there?

– counseling o. That woman is a woman of God in deed. She told me all I have been going through and promised to help me.

– did she give you any thing to eat?

– yes

– what!!! And you ate?

– no oo, she gave me tea not just me, everyone who waited. I didn’t take because it’s too early and I haven’t brushed.

– (deep breath) ha! Thank God. No wonder you still talk sense.

– how do you mean?

– hmm, let’s get home first.

– where is Sandra?

– gone I guess. Listen, henceforth you have to be very careful with that lady. Please.

– hmmm, why?

– let’s get home first.

They board a bus.
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Benita looked at her wristwatch, it’s 9:45 pm.

-wow, it’s late already she muttered. Holy ghost shield me with your glory. Amen.

The programme started. Benita wasn’t comfortable at all.

Praise and worship was going on, she wasn’t just flowing. She could still feel the presence of marine spirit. Everyone was busy worshiping and singing, dancing and jubilating. Benita was seated praying. She looked shola’s way. She was busy dancing and singing.

Few minutes after praise and worship, it was announced that PANAM PERCY PAUL could not make it to the programme. Everyone felt disappointed, Benita too. That was actually the reason she was there.

Time for ministration. A woman walked up to the podium as MINISTER ZINA. As she handled the mic, Benita’s eyes were opened and what she saw handling the mic was a GOLDEN FISH WITH VERY LOOOOG HAIR.

-Blood of Jesus Christ she muttered.

Minister ZINA looked at her.

-young lady

Benita answered with shock

-Yes please

-are you OK?

-yes ma

– good. Please don’t be distracted. Listen to the word of God.

The minister continued her message.

Benita saw yet another vision. The altar was a big ocean with millions of mermaids.

Blood of Jesus Christ. Holy ghost!!! What place is this? Oh Jesus, save me please.

The woman turned to Benita again. Benita could sense the rage in her eyes.

Arrrgh, continued Benita, and I did not even pray. I was so carried away by the guest. PANAM Percy Paul was only a scam to gather people ( she looked around) and they really did. Holy ghost please save me today, I promise to be careful next time.

Again, she looked shola’s way. She was busy enjoying the sermon and shouting amen to minister zina’s declarations. Benita shook her head. If only she knew or could what I just saw.

Message is over but the minister had some announcements to make.

-somebody shout gloooory. While I preached, God laid in my heart to help people. If you are sitting on the green chair you are one of them. Please wait behind.

(There are three colours of chairs in the hall. Red, white and green. There was jubilation, clapping and shouting.)

MINISTER ZINA pointed at Benita.

– you, young lady (she smiled) daughter of the most high. Hey!!!! ( she speaks in tongues) I see so much anointing on you. Please step, the Lord said I should lay my hands on you.

Benita stood up

I’m very sorry ma, you can’t lay your hands on me.

Minister ZINA smiled.

Hmmm, God told me you will refuse. Test he said I should help you. Wait and see me.

I’m also very sorry ma. I won’t be needing your help. Thanks so much.

Hahahahaha minister ZINA laughed.

God was right. He told me you will refuse.
twice.

The programme ended at about 4:30am. Shola was to wait because she sat on the green chair.

Sandra was so mad at Benita. She walked up to her.

How dare you? You little brat. How dare you humiliate my pastor like that by turning her down? You are such a fool and an ingrate.

Benita looked her in the eyeballs.

-You are one of them

Sandra was shocked

– WHAT!!!!

– Yes you heard me and God will expose you all.

— hmm, I can see that you know too much. Don’t dare us, if you still value your life.

—ten thousand of you cannot harm me. I bare on my body the marks of Jesus Christ.

– be warned. We are a moving train. Don’t try stand on our way. We crush without mercy.

– I am the rail. I cannot be crushed.

Just then MINISTER ZINA SURFACED.

To be continued.

Shola came to visit Benita, her friend and pastor’s only daughter.

Benita is a child of God filled with zeal and knowledge of God. Very spiritual as well. She heads the single sisters forum in her father’s church she called QUEEN’S COT. Aside being respected as the G.O’s daughter, her spiritual maturity cannot be ignored. She is indeed a leader of reputable example.

She would always say….” MY PARENT MADE THE WAY, BUT I MADE THE CHOICE. I AM NOT THIS WAY BECAUSE OF MY PARENTS BUT OF MY CHOICE. I MADE A CHOICE TO SERVE GOD, I WASN’T FORCED, WAS MY PERSONAL DECISION THAT’S WHY IT’S COMFORTABLE AND THAT’S WHY I DON’T HAVE TO STRUGGLE.

Shola came to invite her to a programme her course mate’s church was about having.

What kind of programme? Benita asked

Praise night. Panam Percy Paul will be live.

(Benita jumped for joy) what!!!! Serious??? I’m coming please. What an opportunity to see that great man of God.

LATER THAT EVENING…….

Dad, Benita called

Yes princess, (searching through his bible) how are you today?

I’m good dad. Dad please I need permission. Shola and I were invited to a programme. (Sits next to her dad) but dad, it’s an all night and PANAM PERCY PAUL will be there live.

Woooooow, amazing, when is this?cos, I will like to go too.

15th of this month. Its 15th.

Oh no!!! I have a programme on the 15th. You have my permission. Make sure you tell mumy about it.

(Jumped for joy) thanks dad. I will.

ON THE FIFTEENTH……….

Sandra, shola’s course mate came with two tickets. Surprised to see BENITA.

SHOLA who is this with you please?

Oh, my bad, so sorry, her name is BEnita. My best friend and my pastor’s only daughter.

Woow, nice but I have just two reservations. you know a big person is coming. You didn’t tell me some one will be coming with you.

Its fine, Benita replied. I will sit anywhere. What matters is worshipping in his presence.

THEY GOT TO THE VENUE————-

It’s a very big church. Benita entered and felt goose bumps all over her.

JESUS, I HOPE I’M IN THE RIGHT PLACE. I just don’t feel comfortable.

BENNY, shola called, are you OK?

I’m not, I just don’t feel comfortable here.

Sandra was looking at Benita with so much despite.

This place is the house of GOd na replied Sandra, why being uncomfortable? Don’t you go to programmes?

Hmmm, Benita sighed. I sense a heavy presence of marine demons in this place.

SANDRA GOT ANGRY.

Will stop that? This is a house of God please. Don’t criticise my church please.

Shola replied, Sandra don’t be angry but my friend her has the gift of revelation. Maybe they have come to scatter the programme.

Hmmmm, there is more to this HOLY GHOST HELP ME Benita replied

Sandra hissed and went in

To be continued

Good morning….

My twin sister is involved with a man that I know is a Casanova and she does not care. This man is actually like my boss. We work in the same company but not the same unit. Everyone knows this guy as a man who likes ladies.

Yes,he has tried his way with me several times and failed. Its common knowledge how he sleeps with ladies. Even married ladies. He found out about my twin sister on my facebook page. He started talking to her behind my back and they started dating. I only found out two months after.

I tried to tell my sister how bad this guy is but she is not listening. This man has like 3 or 4 baby mamas o. He is fine,no doubt,has lots of money. And many ladies like my sister fall for his charms. I was really angry he was dating my sister but my sister asked me to mind my business,that she is a grown up lady.

My mom had to come in. She sided with me and forbade my sister from having anything to do with this man but Nma will not listen. Nma has always been the more stubborn of us twins. She always liked to have her way. My mom raised us with our brothers when our father passed on about 16 years ago.

Nma has always given my mom headache. Now,Nma has moved in with this man. I am so pissed cause I know this is not right. This man is a pig. He does not deserve my sister. What can I do? My sister has said she will marry him whether the family likes it or not. He has not even made any intentions known if he even wants to marry her. My mother has given up and allowed her carry her cross.

Nma is telling everyone that I am jealous that this man came for me first but she is the one with him.I have allowed her be but I am seriously worried for her…she has said she does not mind being his 5th baby mama. I think she wants him to impregnate her…

My mother is crying but Nma seems to be in cloud 9. I have prayed and prayed for God to intervene …..how can I just fold my hands and watch my sister enter frying hot oil like that?..yes she is an adult…she is 31 years old.

My brothers are still in University. They wish they could beat this man but that would not change anything cos it looks like Nma is already seeing herself married to this pig. At work,I have stopped talking to him. Thank God I do not need to see him again. My office staff just found out he is marrying my sister. They feel so bad for me.

The worst is,he does not even bother to hide or change his philandering ways…The young interns in my company are the ones he is constantly been seen around with.One of them is walking around like a peacock…while my sister is in his house playing wife duties when he has not even paid her bride price.

I feel sad and angry that there is not much I can do about this whole situation…please advice me.

Hello admin,

I am in a relationship with a beautiful lady but there is a character flaw that she has that is preventing us from moving forward.

I don’t even know whether to classify it as a character flaw but it is giving me serious cause for worry.

I met Titi two years ago. She had just finished NYSC. Very intelligent and beautiful woman. What drew me to her was her smile and kind personality.

Titi is so kind,she can give you her blood if you asked for it. She is always moved when she sees others disadvantaged or less privileged. That part of her was what drew me to her.

However,the part of her that is quite a concern is that she is a cry baby. She cries quite easily at the slightest provocation or disagreement.

I mean,at first,I thought it was just being a woman but my goodness,we can be having an argument and she starts crying instead of her to see through the argument for us to have a clear resolution.

And because I hate to see her cry,I just start comforting her and that means most times,I am not happy about the way we resolved the issues but because I want her to stop crying,I just start consoling her.

One time,I tried to ignore her for crying unnecessarily,she ended up crying for almost three days!…and I ended up consoling her…but I love my baby sha…

The time I took her to see my mother,my mother asked her to make her pap. I don’t know if my mom was testing her but she actually did not make the pap well;it had lumps in it. My darling girlfriend just burst into tears because of that.

My mother and siblings were laughing and trying to tell her it wasn’t a big deal but behind her,they were like,are you sure this is the woman you want to marry?

It would appear that Titi is quite a pampered child. Her parents are affluent,always having servants doing things for them while growing up.

As much as Titi seems like she is making efforts to impress me,I feel she is not emotionally mature for marriage.

Being together these two years,its time to take the relationship to the next level but I fear that she is not emotionally mature.

Titi is also hinting that its time we should get married. I know,I love her. She is my soul mate. But marriage is a huge deal.

When we have challenges,will she be strong enough to stand by me and deal with it?

I do not want a child for a marriage partner. I want a mature adult. Please am I making sense?. ..

Am I being unrealistic…I want people who have been in similar situations to advise me on how they were able to deal with such situations.

I love Titi…but I am not sure she is emotionally and mentally ready for marriage…your advice please…..

Some women always use sexual intimacy time to make demands from their husbands.

If he refuses, her mood will change. It is wrong?

Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising ‘wifely functions’!
Just visit the boys’ hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment ‘you look sexy my gal’ and she would gladly reply ‘thank you honey’ with a flirty voice and a romantic smile.
Who is her lover?
A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live in with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls suddenly loose their senses immediately they
gain admission. I’ve seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look ‘campussy’ and sexy enough for the guys. In months, they would start sleeping around with boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the ‘best couple award’.
You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will definitely leave you after graduation. You play
wife to a boy who cannot even care for himself.
Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open your eyes Can’t you see you’re being foolish? You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a coward who cannot stand before your father.
And when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you can’t master the punishment of your conscience.
Don’t you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don’t you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied I don’t sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him’. What impunity That’s classified harlotry. And don’t you know that sleeping with a man without your father’s blessings is bringing a curse to your future? What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with
anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady
would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her care and character not her curves and complexion! Real men know this; so, get it screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you ‘sexy’ and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are
indeed a mistake. Am not saying that you should be rude or never live a ‘social life’ but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that’s why am sounding stern. I know about two girls now that have been living with their boyfriend since year one and as it is now they can’t even even count many abortions they had for that same boy at school. Bae it’s now like a normal thing to them, the last one she did almost took her life and that made her bleed for 4months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.. As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive use of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advise you would give your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended you…if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you. And God is more proud of you. Please
share this message with all our youths and our teens.
Thanks. Pls share with teens, youth and Group Chats that care to read.
becus its gona bless ur soul.
Sincerely a lot is happening in our various institutions so parents, brother and sister out there try and visit your daughter without notice and see things obviously you will be shocked.
Writer
MALAM MAMUDA KABIR DUTSINMA.

Whenever I question people and ask what type of marriage partner do you want, now this is a
question I ask both believers, so called believers and unbeliever; I hear almost the same answer and guess the answer?

‘I want a man/woman
that loves and fears God’.
Some even tell me some qualities like, he/she
must be fervent for God, must be this and must
be that.

Surprisingly, even unbelievers want godly
partners *smiles*. It is not bad to desire such
knowing fully well that only God in your spouse
will make a good marriage, good marriage I wrote or stated and not good wedding, take note.

Everyone desires a fire brand, good person, the
question is are you such?

Let me quickly set a
scenario, where we have a burning fire, burning
very well. Fire fighters use water or other solvents which will kill the fire in no time.

Therefore, if you
want a fire brand and you are not, you are the
water that will kill the fire; so fire-brand partners
should beware of fire extinguishers!

You have to settle your relationship with God first like I do say and then He will settle your
marriage.

God does not give one of His own to just anybody. The first thing a man needs is not a
woman, it is God.

Adam knew God before Eve so why is our men
today wanting a woman first before God
(especially thinking she will lead him to God)?

That is wrong, it was Adam and God from
Gen.1:27 through to when He (God) saw the need for a woman in Gen.2:21.

He made the man ready for a woman, communion
with Him, a shelter which is the garden, food,
health insurance and so on and then He brought
out the woman in him.

Let God comes first, He
will prepare you for your jewel. A woman need to place her heart into God’s
hands first and He will place it into the hand of
the right man! Esther was right with God and she
was favoured to be a queen. Before you can
become a wise woman in Prov. 14:1, you must
have firstly been a Prov 31:30 woman who fears
God. You can only fear God when you have
communion with him in His words, prayer and
personal walk with Him.

I’m encouraging you today, stop looking for a
fire-brand, godly man or woman and be the same
and then you will attract your type by His grace.
Be in God before being in love!