Dear husband, dear friend,
Now that God is helping you financially and materially, why do you maltreat, neglect or even abandon your wife that stood by you all these years when you didn’t have anything?
How dare you look at her in the face and tell her that she isn’t in your class anymore? How could you say such a thing to her?
Have you forgotten her prayers, her advice, her moral support, her encouragement, her deprivation so that both of you can succeed in your marriage and life?
Have you forgotten the many times she had to go borrow food stuff so that the family can eat when you were so helpless to anything?
Have you forgotten the few or many times she had to pay the house rent, the children school fees, feed the home singlehandedly because you suffered a set back on your job, business, or ministry?
In your financial downtime, she had some men who wanted her to have extra marital affairs with them. But because she loves you so dearly, she turned down all those financial favours and stayed with you without compromising her marital vows.
In your financial downtime, unlike some crazy wives out there, she gave you peace of mind. She never bothered one bit and never complained about your financial challenge to you or to anybody else. Rather, she supported you all the way.
Now that you’re up and doing financially, no that you’re very successful. Now that you’re very rich. Now that you’re a celebrated business man. Now that you’re a very successful professional. Why do you maltreat her? Why do you call her all kinds of unprintable names? Why do you neglect her and her children? Why do you now sleep alone in the master bedroom while she sleeps in one other room? Why are you seeking to divorce her now because she doesn’t have kids for you yet or doesn’t have male children? Why do you now keep mistresses, side chicks, baby mamas, slay queens? Why do you now cheat on her?
Dear husband, I am not a women’s advocate. I only stand by the truth. If you are doing all that to your wife, know that it’s very unfair, callous, and wicked. A good husband never treats his wife this way. Please change and treat her well. Because what God has joined together, let no “change of levels” put asunder.
Coach Joshua has said his own. Let him that has ears, take heed to this great advice.
However…
#I celebrate all the husbands who despite having changed levels financially have never changed for bad or worse towards their wives. God bless you, keep you alive and preserve all his blessings upon your lives. You’re husbands in the truest sense of it. You rock!
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See you at the top!
Your friend,
Coach Joshua
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