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My name is Fred, my life was on a gradual but steady ride to success. But what is success? To me I think success is relative, depending strongly on ones opinion and standard. I hoped for a life that I would live and maximize my God given talents and have a beloved family, raising themContinue reading “The biggest mistake of my life.”

1. Living in the same room or sleeping on the same bed with a man who has not paid your bride- price or wedded you; (this is foolishness 3. Wearing the engagement ring of a man who doesn’t even know your parents or house; (You are wasting your time & blocking God’s blessing). 4. UsingContinue reading “LADIES STOP DOING THESE THINGS IN THE NAME OF LOVE AGAIN:”

1.HAVING IDOLS IN THE HEART: This is one of the biggies. Please pay close attention here. In the Bible, anything that takes the place of God in your heart is an idol. God wants to have first place in your life especially when it comes to the issue of a godly spouse. HE has alreadyContinue reading “THE NINE MISTAKES THAT ALMOST ALL CHRISTAIN SINGLES MAKE.”

Don’t marry a woman and leave her for your mother and siblings who have refused to go to their own husband’s home. If you are not capable of providing shelter for the woman you marry, please postpone marriage until you are ready. Gone are the days when you marry a woman for your mama. SomeContinue reading “Don’t marry a woman and leave her for your mother and siblings.”

I am still single doesn’t mean that I don’t have a heart and I have never loved anyone. I am single doesn’t mean that I am not romantic and that I don’t understand the feelings of love. I am still single because I don’t wear my heart on my sleeve and because I don’t believeContinue reading “WHY AM I STILL SINGLE? (ABRAHAM ITODO)”

.When I got home the following morning, Amanda was boiling with anger. She scolded me and threatened to call my parents and report my actions. I got angry and shouted at her then I left our room and went back to Vincent’s room where I spent the rest of the day. That was the firstContinue reading “PART 3 MY DELIBERATE MISTAKE”

.I was rushing through the hallway because I was already late for lectures when I bumped into someone or did he bump into me? I couldn’t remember. I bent over to pick my books which fell on d floor but I couldn’t help but stare at the long, slender hands that picked d books fasterContinue reading “Part two MY DELIBERATE MISTAKE”

“Cindy” ….”Cindy” my bestie Chimamanda called; “yes, sorry I was absent minded” Sitting at the hospital reception I couldn’t help but feel sorry for myself. “How did I get this far? How could I have ignored all the signs? Why did I let this happen?” Then I narrowed it all to Vincent – my woeContinue reading “PART ONE MY DELIBERATE MISTAKE”

I see many Christians destroying themselves in the effort to find a husband or a wife. They wear revealing clothes, hang around nightclubs and feel ashamed in church on Sunday. Pain and desperation are driving them to clumsily adopt the ways of the world in finding a life partner. It can only lead to heartacheContinue reading “14 Principles For Finding A Godly Wife Or Husband!!”

The matter is complex. I don’t really know why men cheat. I don’t! And the shocking aspect is, most of their cheating partners are usually less attractive and appealing than their legitimate partners! Na so e be! MY EXPERIENCE If someone had told me before then that I would be sexually involved with a girlContinue reading “Men & Cheating: My Experience, My Lessons!!!!”